Saturday, October 12, 2024

You can't have health problems unless you feel guilty about something

 Apr. 2016

Yup, Chuck Spezzano actually said it. The entire quote was:

"You can't have health problems unless you feel guilty about something, and then at an even deeper level you can't have a health problem unless you're getting revenge on someone."

It came from his 2010 Youtube (produced with the help of Spar Street) entitled Self-Health but was deleted from public view more than two years ago from the account of Spezzano's Healing Metaphors A-Z co-author Janie Ticehurst.

 Chuck Spezzano without the cosmetics. This man feels free to lecture you on self-health

In my view that quote qualifies as one of the most evil statements ever given by any Psychology of Vision representative, and what compounds the damage is that a lot of the POV foundation rests on this kind of sick shaming.

Here's a nice opinion piece from The Guardian Mar. 26, 2016,  Don't tell cancer patients what they could be doing to cure themselves / Steven W. Thrasher.

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/26/do-not-tell-cancer-patients-cures-they-could-be-doing?CMP=share_btn_tw

The following passage especially reminded me of the Spezzanos, Psychology of Vision, and the Healing Metaphors A-Z:

"Finally, giving advice to people with cancer blames the sick person for your discomfort with their reality and shifts any accountability you feel back on to them. As the authors Barbara Ehrenreich and Sarah Schulman have shown, we have ethical responsibilities to the vulnerable in our communities – and we find excuses to avoid them. Having cancer or caring for someone with it understandably causes fear, anxiety and depression. Expecting someone to have a Positive Attitude™ when they are facing mortality, or telling them they’ve missed a simplistic way they could have avoided their fate, further isolates and shuns them.

As anthropologist S. Lochlain Jain wrote in Malignant: How Cancer Becomes Us, 'the huge and punishing self-help industry preys on fear and adds guilt to the mix. As one woman with metastatic colon cancer said on a retreat I attended, ‘Maybe I haven’t laughed enough.’' Talking at someone with cancer about what they should do, rather than being with them in a morass with no easy answers, is not you helping them. It is you unfairly shaming them for having failed at self-help, which isn’t even a thing."

Thrasher's mention of further isolating the person with cancer is exactly what a for-profit cult group like POV wants to promote so they can become your new surrogate family and drain your bank account. Makes ya think,  don't it?

Lency and Chuck Spezzano

It is important to remember Chuck Spezzano is not a professional nor licensed psychologist. He's a self-appointed "coach" which requires no consumer protection oversight. Enter POV at your own risk.




7 comments:

Year of the Cat said...

Great photos

I grant you that life exists, so? said...

From the Spezzano/Ticehurst "Healing Metaphors"

Obesity

Obesity is a state of being abnormally fat and is one of the ways in which we hide our true self, true power, purpose and sexuality.

We are caught in major patterns of indulgence and sacrifice; we are substituting food for love, bonding and creativity.

We have deep feelings of insecurity and are trying to fill up our unconscious, hidden feelings of desolation, misery and desperation.

Our obesity is an attempt to create padding to protect us from the shocks and downfalls of life.

Overeating is a way to tranquilize our emotional pain and fear. There may be a massive compensation for feelings of failure.

You can't let those feelings show said...

Seeing your favorite movie star without makeup wakes you up to the fact that the reality you've been fantasizing about is all fakery and marketing. This guy is basically an obese slob. If his message is so great why is he in such bad shape?

Name of the Game said...

Corpulence.

Anonymous said...

Both of the Spezzanos have had significant cosmetic changes made over the years, starting with their teeth. But in spite of all the expenses they have invested to enhance their image their awful lifestyle and lack of disciplined self-care still manages to visually surface.

One has to wonder how much they itemized their cosmetics with the IRS as occupational write-offs since they considered themselves in a form of show business?

The Spezzanos are all about blaming others, including those who have diseases, but never about accepting responsibility for their own scammy behaviors.

Since they pose as their own brand, I believe this topic is appropriate and not a personal attack. It is an observation made from a business ethics standpoint.

These people do NOT walk their talk when it comes to self-care. In photos of many POV social events these two usually have some drink in hand and look pretty snockered. Excuse me, but isn't alcohol abuse one of the major contributors to family dysfunctions?

Chuck and Lency Spezzano are frauds. Do not trust them. Smiling love bomb faces sometimes pretend to be your friends.



I'll Bet Camus said...

I notice that in almost all of the publicity photos with both Chuck and Lency she is graphically presented in a subservient position. This message is in stark contrast to the current POV emphasis on feminine power.

Anonymous said...

So only people who feel guilty or out to get revenge are contracting coronavirus?

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